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Are YOU Running For Your Life (Away from the chaos junkies and drama queens who invade your space)?

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Don’t waste another minute dealing with a toxic, negative, energy-draining person. Some people are wired for negativity. They love being argumentative, combative and abusive. Run for your life as quickly as possible. – Les Brown.

We all live with some form of drama and chaos in our lives. Think of a time when your friend may have been going through a very traumatic and heart wrenching break-up and how you were there to help them get through it all.  And yes, there was probably a lot of drama involved with the whole process.  Chances are, your friend got over it, healed and moved on.

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THE CENTRE OF THE UNIVERSE

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By Kimberley Langford

People see themselves as the centre of the universe and judge everything as it relates to them.” -Peace Pilgrim

When we believe that we are the centre of the universe we come directly from ego and go through life wearing blinders. We don’t see the whole picture and we don’t view others realistically or with compassion.

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The Clock’s-A-Tickin’…Isn’t It About Time You Started Reclaiming Your Dreams?

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You have the patience the strength and the passion to achieve your ambitions, your goals and your dreams.  All you need to do now, is try.” – Anon

In my previous blog article I discussed the role that dream stealers can play when it comes to our buying into the erroneous belief that we won’t ever achieve our dreams and fulfill our passion in life.  Now that we’ve explored this we need to take the next step.

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Are the Dream Stealers from your past still playing head games with you?

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“You were put on this earth to achieve your greatest self, to live out your purpose, and to do it courageously.”
Steve Maraboli, “Life, the Truth, and Being Free

I’d like you to think back to the first time, that you can remember, when someone put down your dreams or future plans.

How old where you? Where were you when this happened? And who was it who put down your dreams or future plans?  Were they an authority figure such as a parent or parent-figure, older relative, or teacher?

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Saying Good Bye to Last Year….2016 and a Hearty Happy New Year to 2017!

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New Year – a new chapter, new verse, or just the same old story? Ultimately we write it. The choice is ours.” ― Alex Morritt, Impromptu Scribe

During the past year we’ve seen a lot of changes and events in this world….some very positive, and some were downright evil. It’s during the first days of the New Year that we begin to think about and then make New Year’s resolutions.  How many of them fall by the way side and why?  Is it because we make them to please someone else and then, make them half-heartedly or is it because we’d like to make those changes but just aren’t ready to…yet?

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The Entitlement Generation – As parents are we responsible?

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While I was growing up in the 1970’s I was a part of a growing statistic of children referred to as the “Latchkey generation.” My mother, who had separated and later divorced my father, was one of those women who had to work outside of the home. Living on welfare was not an option for her. She was and will always be a woman who prides herself on being independent, working through her challenges and being empowered.  She worked at a bank during the day and went to University at night to become an Accountant. She later went on to be the first female controller of an Oil refinery as well as a successful entrepreneur.

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Silenced Woman- An Excerpt from “The Evolving Woman Series…Daily Reflections”

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Silenced Woman
Silenced Woman has lost her voice. It has been stolen from her. It
keeps her from speaking up and telling her truth.
Many times, this occurs during childhood. She may have been told
that “nice girls don’t say things like that!” or, she may have been

punished for asking the wrong question, or for speaking up for herself.
Often times it will continue into adulthood. She may also fi nd herself
in abusive relationships where the punishment for speaking her mind
results in such consequences as verbal attacks, fi nancial abuse, or
physical abuse.
Silenced Woman is often thought of as shy or quiet. Many times, a
Silenced Woman is a people-pleaser who says and does what she’s
told to do. She does not counter abuse with assertiveness, nor does
she engage in debates.

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Reclaiming Our Gifts and Letting Go of the Dream Stealers in our Lives – A Writer’s Responsibility.

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As writers  we have been bestowed with the gift of expressing language.  Our words and how we convey our message is part of our calling to help make the world a better place, lift others who may be suffering, create beauty and much needed changes within our world.

Unfortunately, some of us may have been subjected to being criticized and abused by the dream stealers of the world.  These people come from a position of fear, jealousy and their own losses. They may have had their dreams stolen and believe that if they can’t pursue their dreams, no one else should. Their criticism may come in the form of words and actions.  They may say, “Who do you think you are, you’ll never publish a book and we both know that!” Or, “You don’t know what you’re saying and no one else is going to believe you anyway!”

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Excerpt from the book; “101 Days To Create A Path of Forgiveness” By Kimberley Langford

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IT TAKES A WHOLE VILLAGE

The man whom society will not forgive nor restore is driven into recklessness. -F W Robertson

There are times when we as a society, may put a famous person on a pedestal. Then they do something to fall off. For years, we may find it hard to forgive them. They may have made amends and positive changes in their lives but if their name comes up in a conversation we may be quick to say, “Remember when they ________?”

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